Monday, 21 June 2010

• 5 Easy Steps on getting over that guy/girl

  1. Keep yourself occupied. And there are more ways then one.... Get yourself out of the house and into the gym (because exercise helps!) OR take up a new hobby. Ask your friends out for dinner or drinks after work. Have your friends come over for dinner! The more time spent away from your home where the mind can wonder will do wonders. There are a multitude of options here people!!! It's better to forget.. Not forgive :)

   

  2. Avoid contact at all costs. Delete his/her phone number off your phone (or block it or re-lable the number as "do not answer") If they text/call/eMail/voice mail/facebook messages/IM you, pretend like you never received it. Once you start conversing again, it will be doubly hard for you to forget about all the good times spent together. Your mind might be thinking, "Hey, it's just for shit and giggles, we can stay friends!" ABSOLUTELY OUT OF THE QUESTION! Why prey tell?? Well, for starters, once you both start dating other people you might put that third party into a rather awkward situation. Also, it's excess baggage that we don't really need. I can see circumstances where staying friends would be do-able, but try to limit the amount of interaction and flirty behavior because you will offend someone.

  If you have mutual friends, make sure you let them know your situation and limit the amount of time you spend together if need be (after all, you don't want to be "that girl/guy" that jabbers to the mutual friend about how shitty the break up was etc etc...) Sure friends are a shoulder to cry on, but don't put the mutual one's in the middle)

   

  3. Go out and treat yourself to something nice.... New hair cut? Buy a pair of shoes... Do something that makes you feel good about yourself because you deserve to feel loved, just don't over-do the spending ;) 

  The more positive affirmations you throw out there about yourself, the more people will become attracted to you. Sure enough, you'll have a line of people waiting to court you

   

  4. Make a bucket list, but a list of things to do before you get into another committed relationship. Be adventurous, ambitions, and date around!  If you set particular goals to follow, the busier you are, the more people you meet, and WA-LA- you're golden. 

   

  5. Play nice. Although you might have broken up on bad terms with your ex, don't go around talking a bunch of crap. It is what it is... And that's the end of it. Be the bigger person. Don't go psycho stalker and try to let things be. Who cares what he's doing and what he's up to now. Live in the present and forget about the past. If you two were really meant to be, then at another time you'll be together. Simple as that. 

   

  NOW GO AND HAVE FUN :)

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