Friday, 14 May 2010

• There's Nothing Like You and I....

  He's not that into you... NO, really- He really isn't into you and I totally mean it!

  Have you heard this statement before? Doesn't it suck to have to deal with the "does she/he like me OR is he just playing games with my head?" Well, let me tell you.... I would never wish this type of situation upon anyone because it's probably as bad as being unemployed, without a car, and completely broke with tons of credit card debt.... Which reminds me, I've dated one of those before! He didn't even own a cell phone FML (back then anyway)

  I'm not here trying to give you advice on how to keep your significant other, nor am I trying to talk about the tell tale signs that he's bleeping with your head. But what I will tell you is that if you have just the slightest inkling that your woman/man is straying away: go with your gutt and intuition. 

  Simple as that, but easier said then done, ESPECIALLY if you love the idiot. Here's the thing though... Wouldn't you rather spend the rest of your life with someone that treats you the way you want to (most importantly DESERVE) to be treated? Why should you continue to torture yourself and bend over backwards to please this other person? Trust in the fact that a relationship shouldn't be based around one person- it's a commitment between two people whether it be a serious boyfriend girlfriend relationship, engagement, or marriage. It's OK to F-up and realize that they aren't the one best suited for you and it's OK to move on. That's the hardest part of all! And I think too many people sell themselves short and pretend that everything is peachy keen, when in actuality they are making themselves more miserable by staying.

  This is just some food for thought and I hope it at least gives you something to ponder.

   

   

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